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3Somer Review November 2024

Datingscout.sg Author Chris Pleines
From: Chris Pleines
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Discover 3Somer, an app for exploring threesomes. Perfect for adding spice this fall. Open to all genders, this app provides a platform for like-minded individuals to connect.
1,000 Members
 25 % ♀ 
 75 % ♂ 
Good For:
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Success Rate:
30 / 10
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33 / 10
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Age Distribution:
18-24
25-34
35+

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3Somer in 10 seconds

  • 3Somer is an app created for people who want to engage in threesomes
  • A discreet and anonymous platform for singles and couples who want to swing
  • Heavily dominated by male members
  • The app is open to all genders of different orientations
  • Offers threesome with couples, single girls and single men from all sexual preferences
  • Available for iOS and Android users
  • Doesn't have a web version
  • Offers general free services and options to upgrade - Learn more here
  • You can use 3Somer for free
  • Pricing starts at US$8.33 / Month - More Information
Datingscout.sg Author Chris Pleines
Chris Pleines
Founder of Datingscout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
3Somer is an interesting app. With a lot of good online feedback, it wouldn't hurt to try it if you really are into threesomes. Based on the testing, it is rare to find fake members around and there were no bots observed.

Who is 3Somer for and not for?

  • If you're searching for erotic adventures and casual encounters
  • Singles who are into casual flirting
  • For people looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
  • For people looking for serious relationships
  • For singles who want to fall in love
  • For people who are in monogamous relationships
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3Somer Pros & Cons

  • 3Somer is inclusive of race, gender, and sexuality
  • Has an active pool of swinging members
  • Premium packages are affordable compared to other swinging apps
  • The app has occasional bugs and glitches
  • Gender and username can't be changed/updated later on
  • The app has no verification systems to check authenticity of profiles

How does 3Somer work?

3somer how it works
  • Designed for individuals and couples seeking threesomes, providing a discreet platform for erotic adventures and casual encounters
  • Has thousands of members in the USA, mostly males in their 20s and 30s
  • Available for iOS and Android
  • Free with basic functions, offering optional premium membership for enhanced features
  • No email verification required

3somer is a mobile app designed for individuals and couples seeking to explore threesomes, providing a discreet platform for engaging in erotic adventures.

It supports a diverse user base across various sexual orientations and offers free and premium features, including messaging and unlimited likes for enhanced user interaction.

The app is available on iOS and Android and emphasizes user privacy, although it does not require email verification for sign-up and may experience occasional glitches.

How much does 3Somer cost?

Can you try 3Somer for free?

  • You can use or try the service for free.
  • All members can send messages for free
  • You can read the first messages in your inbox for free

Is 3Somer expensive or cheap?

In comparison to other providers 3Somer is average.

Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
Premium
1 Month15.49 USD / Month15.49 USD
3 Months11.66 USD / Month34.99 USD
6 Months11.00 USD / Month65.99 USD
12 Months8.33 USD / Month99.99 USD
3Somer Premium
Free Features
  • Registration
  • Photo uploading
  • Searching and using search filters
  • Messaging mutual likes
Premium Features
  • View who liked you
  • Unlimited voice messages
  • Unlimited likes and follows
  • Instant chatting with other members

The billing is recurring based on the current package that you are using. You can cancel it anytime but make sure that you cancel it before the next cycle starts. Payments are directly charged to your phone's Apple Store or Google Play Store.

Payment will be based on your location's currency.

How can I delete my 3Somer account and cancel my subscription?

Please find more information here

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Who is signed up on 3Somer?

Members
1,000 from Singapore
Members activity
150 active weekly
  • Members are singles/couple looking for a threesome
  • High percentage of users are ages 25-34 years old
  • Most members are males
  • Find users from all over the world
  • All genders are allowed to join

The members of 3somers come from different backgrounds but are like-minded when it comes to their sexual preferences. They all are up for a threesome relationship. Regardless if they are just new to it or already veterans in this kind of set-up, 3somer is a community for them. 

Based on available data, males are dominant on the site. They cover almost 80% of the total number of members. The age is not equally distributed as well. Most of them are young adults from 18 to 34 years olds. It can be concluded that the younger generations are more open to explore having a threesome.

It doesn't matter if you are straight, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, single, in a relationship, or married. You are always welcome to join 3somer.

Females
Males

3Somer Age Range and Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

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3Somer in Detail

  • Reading time 16 minutes
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How to Sign Up for 3Somer

3Somer Signup
  • You must be at least 18 years old to sign up
  • You can sign up using your username and password
  • Couples can sign up to share a single account
  • You must sign up to browse 3Somer

To sign up, visit the 3Somer website or download the 3Somer app. The app is available on iOS and Android. To complete the registration, provide all required information.

Required Information on Signup
  • Username
  • Location
  • Your Gender
  • Profile Picture

3Somer offers the following methods to verify your account:

  • Uploading a selfie to be manually verified (required)

3Somer will not ask you to verify your email or phone number. However, you will be required to upload a photo of yourself to boost your profile. 

Making Contact on 3Somer

3Somer Find
  • Contacting features are mostly for premium members
  • Send free messages to members who mutually like you
  • Use the search and reversed search features
  • Adjust search filters for free
  • View online members
  • Voice messaging is available
  • All members can send messages for free

To communicate with other members is not entirely free in 3Somer. If you are decided to find a match for you/your partner, you may opt to buy a premium membership. However, if you get matched to another account holder, you can message each other for free.

Chatting as well as sending of voice messages is available in the app. Searching is also accessible for free to all members. Adjust and save your search parameters based on gender, age, if the member/s drink and smoke or not.

Lastly, 3Somer has a reverse search feature which can let you find members who are looking for someone like you.

3Somer Profile Quality

3Somer Profile
  • View profiles for free
  • Upload profile photos for free
  • Gender cannot be edited
  • Profile information is not detailed
  • Most profiles are not complete
  • Provide some additional information on the "My Story" part
  • Profile pictures are visible to everyone for free

You cannot find much information about 3Somer members on their profiles. Only the basic information and a short bio (if they filled it out) can be viewed by other members when they visit a profile page.

A big part of the profile is the profile picture. His/Her or Their username will be below the photo with their location and a small icon for the gender. To protect the members, exact addresses are not posted. The age and height of the members can be seen as well. You or the other members may opt to provide a short bio, or  "My Story," as they call it in the app. 

There are also heart and conversation icons on the right part which are shortcuts to contact that member.

Despite the very little information required on the profile, you can still find some who still don't have a complete profile, especially on the bio part.

The only things that you cannot edit once you entered it are your username and gender. All the other information can be edited on the settings page.

Special Features

Here are some of the special features of 3Somer:

Reversed Search

Reverse searching is finding members who are looking for someone like you.

Like

This feature gives you a chance to meet another member and send a message to them for free. If you and the other member/couple liked each other, you can start a free conversation right away!

How can I delete my 3Somer account and cancel my subscription?

Uninstalling the app will not cancel your subscription.

How can you cancel your Subscription?

  • You can cancel by managing your app store subscription

Will your subscription automatically renew?

  • Yes, your 3Somer subscription will automatically renew. The notice period for opting out of automatic renewal is 1 Day.

Is there a money back guarantee and do you get refunded the full amount?

  • Usually you will not get back the full amount, it will be reduced by the time or credits you used for 3Somer.

3Somer FAQ

Facts

What is 3Somer app?

3Somer app is an app created for couples or individuals who are looking for a threesome relationship.

Can I join 3Somer with my partner?

Yes, 3Somer accepts members as a couple, or as a single who is looking for a couple to have a threesome.

Does 3Somer have a website version?

3Somer has a website but it doesn't have the functions of the app. It only shows the link where you can download the app on your device.

Is 3Somer legit?

3Somer is a real site where you can meet members looking for a threesome. It has high ratings in the app stores.

Is 3Somer available for Androids?

Yes, you can download 3Somer from the Google Play Store for your Android device.

What is reversed search in 3Somer?

Instead of searching for those who you prefer based on your criteria, find those who are interested in finding you.

What are "likes" in 3Somer?

You can click the likee button if you like that member, if you're lucky and he/she/they like/s you back, you can start messaging each other for free.

What is the average age of users on 3Somer?

The average age of 3Somer users is between 25-33 years. You can find more information here

Usability

How can I join 3Somer?

First, you have to download 3Somer on your mobile device. Then, register using your basic information.

How can I message another 3Somer member?

On a user profile, you'll find the chat icon. Click on it to start chatting. You can also instantly message a match for free.

Can I upload a photo in 3Somer?

Yes, uploading a profile photo is free on the app. It is a requirement for registration.

Can I edit my 3Somer profile?

You can edit other information on your profile except your gender and username.

Can I view online 3Somer members?

Yes, you can view the list of online members for free.

Can I browse 3Somer without an account?

No, you cannot browse profiles on 3Somer without signing up.

What is needed to open a 3Somer account?

To open a 3Somer account, download the 3Somer App on your iOS or Android device or visit the 3Somer website. To complete the registration, provide all required information:
  • Username
  • Location
  • User's Gender
  • Profile picture upload

Membership

Does 3Somer require paid membership?

Not necessarily. You can join 3Somer for free. It also has some free features that you can use.

How many premium membership package does 3Somer have?

3Somer offers a premium membership for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, and 12 months. The benefits are the same but it differs in the duration.

How can I pay for 3Somer membership?

3Somer membership can be paid through your Apple Store or Google Play Store Accounts.

Security

Does 3Somer sell your data?

No, 3Somer does not sell your data.

Was 3Somer hacked in the past?

No, 3Somer was never hacked.

How accurately does 3Somer track your location?

3Somer tracks your approximate location.

Do your 3Somer profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?

No, your 3Somer photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.

Who can view your pictures on 3Somer?

All 3Somer users can view your pictures.

Is your phone number required for signing up at 3Somer?

No, you don't need a phone number to sign up on 3Somer.

Can you erase your personal data on 3Somer?

Yes, 3Somer provides an option for users to erase their data.

How can I delete my 3Somer account and cancel my subscription?

Costs

Can you try 3Somer for free?

How much does 3Somer cost?

3Somer typically costs between 15.49 USD and 99.99 USD. Compared to other dating services, 3Somer's membership costs is average. You can find more information here

How much does it cost to sign up on 3Somer?

You can sign up for 3Somer for free, but to use its premium features you must upgrade. You can find more information here

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Final Results table

Signing Up: 3.0 / 5
Making Contact: 3.5 / 5
Profile Quality: 3.0 / 5

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