Seven Steps on How to Get Yourself A Girlfriend

Today is the first step towards finding the girlfriend you've always wanted.

Appearance attracts, personality keeps. Even if you have stunning looks, if you are boring, it’s likely that you won’t get to keep the girl. Having no interesting story to share would not keep a woman on her toes, draining your last ounce of confidence. And confidence is very important for a man to have as it is linked to sex appeal. Sexual appeal is not really about being attractive. It’s is all about confidence—it is just amplified if you have good looks.

Especially if you are average looking with an average personality, you have to be proactive in making the first move. More often than not, when women flirt, they won’t keep going if they see that the guy is too shy or nervous. It will send them the signal that you’re not into them; thus, they leave and move on. Most women would not give you several opportunities to flirt back, especially if you just met!

Dude, didn’t your mom teach you how to behave? As with any other human being, women should be respected too and not be treated as if they were objects. Stop with the catcalling and the whistling; those are only for calling your pets. And most importantly, keep your hands to yourself when the situation does not call for it. Trust us, ever since the beginning of time, perverts never get the girl.

Do you tend to say the wrong thing to a woman causing her to run off even before you even start flirting? Don’t talk to a woman as if she’s one of your bros, especially if you just met. She will take it the wrong way.

You need to understand that you should allow a woman to have her personal time and space. Clinginess is a major turn-off. You should still have a life outside a relationship, as women would like to have the same.

Grooming and proper hygiene are very important to have if you are trying to get a woman to pay attention to you. Nobody likes to go out on a date with a smelly slob! Get a haircut, groom your beard, wear deodorant, brush your teeth. It’s a basic requirement that you actually do this even if you’re not looking for a girlfriend.

Now you might be afraid of approaching a woman because you fear you don’t understand them. You don’t know what to talk about women or how to behave in their presence. So instead, you make silly jokes with your buddies. Well, let me tell you something, buddy, that just shows your insecurity and will get you nowhere.

Women are not aliens. They are living, breathing, thinking humans beings just like you. Believe it or not, they will understand whatever that comes from your mouth. Let’s just hope it’s appropriate enough that you won’t get slapped on the face.

Having zero dating experience can be quite a roadblock. It’s because you don’t know of dating rules, and you don’t even know where to start. Don’t worry; this article will change that.

Getting a girlfriend should not be so difficult. You can smoothly get one if you follow these seven steps:

Get a life and get rich stories. Doing what you like doing and travelling to experience new cultures make rich and interesting stories. So put yourself out there and experiencing new things.

The next thing you need to do is to step outside your house. You won’t get a girlfriend at the four corners of your home. Go to where the girls are.

Be aware of where girls hang out. There are girls everywhere. But if you need a list of where exactly you can find them, just check out this section of the review.

Expand your network. Meeting new people from social events and gatherings immediately expands your network. Sign up for gym or club memberships, or classes that are aligned with your passion. You could also switch up the usual places you go to. Maybe try going to a different grocery store. You could also do some solo travelling—that’s a great way to meet new people.

Make dating apps your friends. Everyone is online. The best way to meet and connect with other singles is through dating apps. Most men have trouble getting women to be interested. Just be you and make her laugh. Once you have made that connection, you can proceed to ask her about herself. If you've talked for more than an hour and you still continue to talk for the next few days, then perhaps, you can try asking her out on a date. 

Always be ready wherever you are. Always be prepared to flirt wherever you are. That means always make yourself presentable when going outside. Don’t shy or look the other way when you see a woman who’s showing interest. Just always be ready to share your name and do some small talk all the time. Sometimes, life only comes to surprise you and ushers you to meet your future soulmate.

But regardless of wherever you are, once you see a woman that you like, build up the courage and have a conversation with her. Holding a strong eye contact is first and foremost, important. Keep focus on her eyes with breaks from time-to-time – you can look at her hands, her smile, or her hair. 

Here are some tips on how you can get yourself ready for these kinds of situations:

Practise talking to women. You could talk to a lot of girls first before striking up a conversation with a woman that you like. This way, you’re already full of practice and won’t be nervous anymore.

Equip yourself with pick up lines. Pick Up Lines are good openers to introduce yourself to a woman you want to get to know.

Have some conversation starters ready. Sometimes, the woman you go up to are not so good at small talk, so it’s best if you’re ready to be the control the conversation. You can start by asking her if she’s working on anything exciting lately, or simply by asking her how her day was.

Don’t run out of things to say. Learn to listen to what she says and comment or share your input when she pauses. Be inquisitive and show interest in her stories by asking appropriate questions.

So you’ve already talked to the woman you want to go on a date with. If you felt a connection, you could tell her that you would like to see her again and ask for her number. If she gives it to you, you could send her a message that same night or the following day. Just ask her how she’s doing, and you can be text buddies first.

Then when you know you she’s comfortable, ask her out. You can simply ask her if she’s free on this day. You could do this through text if you met somewhere random. You can also do it face-to-face, especially if you regularly see her (e.g. class, gym, etc.).

Plan the date. The date you plan depends on the interests of the woman you want to take out. By this time, she would’ve shared with you some of her interests. You may know anything about her, except if you didn’t pay attention.

Don’t take rejection too hard. When a woman is interested in you, if she’s not free at the time you requested, she will suggest a different time. But when she outright says no, then need to respect that. Woo her some more, amp up your flirt game. Show her your good intentions.

A nice dinner out is always a good first date idea. You get to know each other as you have your meal, and see if there are enough connection and chemistry for you guys to start dating. After dinner, you could go out for some drinks in the nearby pub—this is a nice way to loosen up your inhibitions and get even closer.

Some tips we would like to impart on you to make the date successful:

Look dapper. Take the time and effort to clean yourself up. Brush your teeth, comb your hair, dress appropriately. Appearance is a big factor on the first date.

Mind your manners. Rude men don’t get to have the second date. Listen when she speaks, and also share stories to keep the conversation going.  Be polite—don’t speak with your mouth full.

Gauge compatibility. A first date usually lets you evaluate if you are compatible with your date. It allows you to asses if you have enough chemistry to have a 2nd date. Most of the time, you can’t really force someone to like you, and vice-versa.

When there is chemistry, there will be sexual tension. You may not feel it on the first date (but possible too), but you will eventually and it would lead you to bed. You have to be mindful if she’s also feeling the same thing. Be aware of her body language and the hints she’s dropping.

Do it when the time is right. You have to be careful when and how frequently you do it. You want a girlfriend, not a friend with benefit. It may be best to do it after three or more dates so that you could show your intentions to her.

Don’t leave before she wakes up. If you want her to be your girlfriend, make her breakfast in the morning. Show to her that it’s not just the sex you’re after.

Frequent vanilla sex often leads to emotional attachment. Sex is a significant milestone in a relationship, and compatibility in bed is essential. The more often you engage in sexual activity that is rooted in passion and attraction, the more likely you can convert her to being your girlfriend.

someone, but you’re not really falling in love, then she shouldn’t be your girlfriend. She can be your best friend.

But when you want to spend every minute with her, when it is her you think about first when you have little wins in life, then that means that you are already falling in love with her. When you’re you want to commit and you know she’s also ready, go for it and ask.

Ask her to be your girlfriend. Now it depends on the woman’s personality if you think there should be a proposal involved. Yet it’s not like you’re asking her to marry you, so you could also do it more casually.

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There are many options and places where you can look for a girlfriend. You can meet a woman anywhere! You just have to keep your eyes open whenever you leave your home and be ready to flirt wherever you are. Do you hear me?

But okay, some of us guys want to know the specifics. So here are specific places or situations where you can possibly find a girlfriend:

Parties in your local neighbourhood and get-togethers thrown by your friends are great places where you can meet women. The best event to meet a potential girlfriend is none other than weddings. More often than not, weddings make singles feel like they also want to experience the love they see on the married couple. All the feelings are heightened, and so, women make relatively easier targets.

Also, if you can find a speed dating event near you, try attending one. The women you meet at speed dating events are also looking for a boyfriend, so that alone should increase your chances of landing a girlfriend.

Do you know those aunts who always try to set you up for a blind date? You should take them up on that. The people who try to arrange a date for you—a friend or a family member—almost always set you up with women who they know will connect with you. They do have your best interests at heart, so just go with the flow and meet the women they introduce.

An online dating site is an excellent platform to meet girls and potentially find your girlfriend. This could be even more beneficial if you don’t dare to talk to a woman face-to-face, or if you’re looking for a woman with a specific race or religion, or maybe if you have no means to take her out on a date (you should work on this if you want to get a girlfriend).

There are different categories of dating sites you can choose from. It depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. If you’re looking for a girlfriend, Matchmaker sites are good. If you’re looking for something more casual and fun, you can try Casual Dating sites. Or, if you don’t want the commitment of creating a profile just yet, you can start using any of these Dating Sites first.