Messaging, which is the most important aspect of dating websites, is, fortunately, free on Mingle2. Most messaging features can be accessed by all the members. Besides the recommendations shown on the user's account page, the user would have to manually search for the profiles they want to chat with. Only completed profiles are shown in the search results and recommendations, so there is a guarantee that only the members who are serious about finding a date are shown. The user has an option to only be shown profiles that have pictures. If the user is shy or self-conscious, they can choose the other alternatives offered by Mingle2. The user can send nudges, kisses, winks, hugs, or kicks in the butt to other singles for free.
As a precaution against spammers, free users have first-contact limits and their messages get automatically deleted after 30 days. However, if a member has reached the first-contact limit, they can still send unlimited messages to those they already know and chat with. To be exempted from these, one would have to upgrade to MinglePlus.